You know "them" the people who actually like to work out ! I use to be super obsessed with wanting to be skinny. I did some stupid shit to make that happen like eating disorders, throwing up , starving myself, and even drugs, I Finally realized, hey maybe i should just work out!? I mentally changed my mind of always thinking I need to look like the girls on TV,When i really need to look like me :) ! I am taking my time, not rushing myself, and the results are coming along great . And the best part is I feel GREAT!